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Strap-On-Me Leatherette Desirous Harness

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Color: Bronze
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Regular price $52.50 USD
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The Strap-On-Me Desirous Harness combines a streamlined bare-back profile with the adjustment needed for a stable, personalized fit. Its golden-bronze leatherette sits close to the body, while the padded rear belt and fully adjustable front and back straps support comfortable movement from sizes XS through XXL.

Three removable O-rings let you match the harness to different compatible dildo diameters. The 1.8-, 2.2- and 2.6-inch rings attach at the front with snap fasteners, making it quick to change the opening without replacing the harness. The positioning strap can then be tightened to hold the dildo’s base securely against the body.

Desirous is compatible with the full Strap-On-Me dildo range, including the Multi Orgasm Dildo. The open construction keeps the installed toy directly against the body for a more connected feel and makes the harness adaptable for pegging and other partnered strap-on play. A dildo is not included, so you can choose the shape and size that suit you.

The harness composition is 95% polyurethane, 2% nitrile, 2% iron, 0.5% polyester and 0.5% elastane, with removable silicone O-rings. Remove the dildo before cleaning. Wipe the leatherette, straps and hardware with a soft cloth lightly dampened with warm, soapy water, then air-dry completely before storage; do not soak the harness.

What’s Included

  • One bronze Strap-On-Me Desirous leatherette harness
  • Three removable O-rings: 1.8, 2.2 and 2.6 in diameters
  • One cotton storage pouch

Frequently asked questions

The front and rear straps adjust from XS through XXL, with a stated hip range of approximately 34.6 to 53.9 inches (88 to 137 cm). Tighten the straps evenly so the selected toy sits securely against the body.

No. The package includes the harness, three interchangeable O-rings and a cotton storage pouch. Choose a compatible dildo separately.

Desirous includes three removable O-rings measuring 1.8, 2.2 and 2.6 inches (4.5, 5.5 and 6.5 cm) in diameter. Snap fasteners make it easy to install the ring that best supports your chosen toy.

Remove the dildo, then wipe the leatherette, straps and hardware with a soft cloth lightly dampened with warm, soapy water. Do not soak the harness; air-dry it completely before placing it in the storage pouch.

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